Lets talk about the infamous "Side Chic". Back in the day the "side Chic' was considered the dummy. She would wait around for the married man to leave his wife while she was giving all her goodies to a married man or a guy in a relationship and then end up dumped in brokenhearted when he choose his wife and family instead of her. Nowadays things have truly changed. Lately it seems that the "side chics" have been gaining power and over throwing the main chic and taking her place. Lets talk about a few cases in where the "Side Chic" came out on top and the wife and family were left brokenhearted and destroyed.
Case #1 Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt
Brad Pitt was supposedly "happily" married to Jennifer Aniston for 5 years. Reportedly all of that changed when he worked with Angelina Jolie. In an interview in 2009 Brad Pitt said he fell in love with Angelina on the set of Mr. and Mrs. Smith (while he was still married to Aniston). Pitt and Aniston were divorced in 2005. Pitt and Jolie have 6 kids and been together ever since.
Case #2 Mel Gibson and Oksana Grigorieva
After 30 years of marriage Mel Gibson announced a divorce. Almost immediately after announcing his divorce Gibson was scene Russian pianist Oksana Grigorieva,out in public. Within a month, he confirmed that Oksana was pregnant and they had a baby together in December.
Case #3 Tiki Barber and Traci Lynn Johnson
NFL Great Tiki Barber not only cheated on his wife but he left her while she was 8 months pregnant with twins for his mistress Traci Lynn Johnson. To make things even worse he married his mistress 8 days after his divorce was final.
Case #4 Stevie J and Joseline
Stevie J not only cheated on his long time girlfriend and the
mother to his child Mimi but he did it all on TV. Stevie J
paraded his side chic "Joseline" around on camera and in real
life as is MIMI didn't even exist. If you ever watched Love
and Hip Hop Atlanta you would have thought Joseline was
the main girl and Mimi was the side chic the way Stevie J
treated her. Needless to say after a few season
of ridiculousness and drama he ultimately up with the self
proclaimed Puerto Rican Princess Joseline.
Case #5 Peter Gunz and Amina
The so called famous Peter Gunz introduced us to a new
level of disrespect when he married his "Side Chic" Amina
(Buddafly). Gunz who was living with his long
time girlfriend Tara, went off and married his "side chic"
Amina and kept it a secret as he continued living with his
girlfriend Tara and his two sons.
As we can see being a side chic is not a "dead end" position
anymore. Why do you think it is becoming more and more
common that side chis are being promoted to main chic?
Does it pay to be a side chic these days? Why do so many
women a.k.a. "main chic" give men this type of power to
play with their hearts? Why not walk away? Who's at fault
the man or the side chic?
There are some side chics who believe the main chic is the idiot because she has to be stuck with the guy all the time whereas she can get what she wants and send him home. Part time love works on a large level.
ReplyDeleteYou know Doris I have heard that a number of times recently
ReplyDeleteLots of times, the wife or main lady gets complacent. Especially a wife with kids will use divorce and financial ruin as leverage in a relationship instead of love. Side chicks can tell this in a man and he becomes easy pickings. He can't resist sex with her because he won't get it at home.
ReplyDeleteI have never looked at it like that Kelly.. i can see that in some cases
DeleteYa girl Mz K. Green is on to something.....why can't the main chic be both is my question? Thus eliminating the side chick. Believe it or not all main chicks were side chicks at one time the just got promoted and didn't realize it
ReplyDeleteDo you really think that all side chics are the product of the main chic lacking something at home?
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